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Asentiv Australia — BNI Referral Script (29 Mar 2026)

Business networking and referral training
Perth
Story-Driven Style
Generated 29 Mar 2026

Asentiv Australia — Helping struggling Perth business owners build profitable referral networks that actually generate leads.

Transforming isolated business owners into connected referral magnets

http://www.asentiv.com.au →

Craig, the Networking-Frustrated Business Owner

Age 42-48, owns a service-based business (accounting, legal, consulting), $150K-300K annual revenue, been in business 5-12 years, married with teenage kids

1 The Situation

His business has plateaued at the same revenue level for 3 years. He's attending multiple networking events but getting minimal results. Most of his new clients still come from word-of-mouth or online searches, not from his networking efforts.

2 Pain History

He's tried BNI chapters that folded or became cliquey. Spent $3,000+ on various business coaches who promised networking success but delivered generic advice. Wasted countless hours at Chamber of Commerce events making small talk with no follow-up. His wife questions why he's out 3 nights a week with little to show for it.

3 Emotional State

Quietly frustrated and slightly embarrassed that he's 'not good at networking' despite being successful in his field. Feels like he's missing some secret that other business owners know. Starting to doubt whether networking actually works or if it's just a waste of time.

4 Their Vocabulary

Why isn't networking working for me, how to get referrals from networking, business networking that actually works, networking for introverts, how to follow up after networking events, referral partners Perth, business development strategies Perth

5 Trigger Moment

He just calculated that he spent 40+ hours last month at networking events and got zero qualified leads, while his competitor seems to get referrals effortlessly from the same business community. His accountant is pressuring him about next quarter's revenue projections.

30s

30-Second Script

~75 words

I was talking to an accountant last week who told me he'd spent forty hours networking last month. Zero qualified leads. Meanwhile his competitor gets referrals effortlessly from the same community. Sound familiar? At Asentiv Australia, I help business owners turn networking from a time-wasting exercise into a revenue-generating system. Who do you know who's been networking for years but still struggles to get quality referrals from their efforts?
🎤 Delivery Notes

  • Pause after 'Zero qualified leads' to let it sink in
  • Lean forward slightly on 'Sound familiar?' to create connection
  • Slow down on the final question to make it memorable
45s

45-Second Script

~110 words

I was talking to a business consultant last week who calculated he'd networked forty hours last month with zero results. His wife was questioning why he's out three nights a week with nothing to show for it. He was actually embarrassed that after twelve years in business, he still wasn't 'good at networking.' Six months later, he's generated over sixty thousand in referrals using our structured system. At Asentiv Australia, I teach business owners the frameworks that turn networking contacts into paying clients. Who do you know who's frustrated that their networking efforts aren't translating into actual business?
🎤 Delivery Notes

  • Use a slightly frustrated tone when describing the wife's questioning
  • Emphasize 'embarrassed' to hit the emotional pain point
  • Brighten your voice when sharing the success result
60s

60-Second Script

~150 words

I was talking to a lawyer last week who told me something that broke my heart. He'd been networking for five years, spending three nights a week at events. His revenue had plateaued for three straight years. He'd tried BNI chapters that folded, spent thousands on business coaches who gave generic advice, and wasted countless hours making small talk with zero follow-up. His accountant was pressuring him about next quarter's projections. He felt like he was missing some secret that other business owners knew. The turning point came when he realized networking isn't about collecting business cards or making friends. It's about building a referral system. Today, eighteen months later, forty percent of his new clients come from referrals. At Asentiv Australia, I help business owners transform their networking from hope-and-pray to systematic revenue generation. Who do you know whose networking efforts aren't matching their business success?
🎤 Delivery Notes

  • Start with genuine empathy in your voice on 'broke my heart'
  • Build frustration through the list of failed attempts, then pause
  • Shift to hope and confidence when describing the transformation

Use these three tiers in your BNI presentation — start with Tier 1 and work down if members don’t have that specific contact.

1 Best Case

This week I am looking to be introduced to Managing Director at Henderson & Associates Chartered Accountants.

2 Failing That…

Failing that, I’d love to be introduced to the Senior Partner at any established law firm.

3 Worst Case

At worst, I’m looking for any Business Owner of any professional services firm based in Subiaco, Perth.

⚡ Power Phrases

Drop these into conversation to signal you understand their world.

  • systematic referral generation
  • networking that converts to revenue
  • structured business development process
  • measurable networking ROI
  • qualified referral partnerships

🔔 Referral Triggers

Share these so members know when to think of Asentiv Australia.

  • business owner complaining about wasted time at networking events
  • someone mentioning their networking efforts aren't generating leads
  • business owner asking how to get more referrals
  • professional frustrated with random business development results
  • service provider looking to build strategic partnerships

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Deliver with Enthusiasm

Energy is contagious. The room will feel exactly as excited about your referral as you are. Stand tall, speak up, and mean every word.

Use the STOP Technique

Stop speaking. Make direct eye contact with one person. Deliver a single thought directly to them. Pause. Then move to the next person. Never spray the whole room at once.

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One Thought. One Person.

Deliver each sentence or idea to a different individual in the room. This makes every member feel personally spoken to and dramatically increases the chance they’ll act on your referral ask.

Your 60-Second Script — Key Lines Breakdown


Opening Hook — Get them leaning in
  • I was talking to a lawyer last week who told me something that broke my heart.
  • He'd been networking for five years, spending three nights a week at events.

Deliver the Key Message — Make them feel it
  • Business owners networking for years with plateaued revenue
  • Networking transformed from hope-and-pray to systematic revenue generation
  • Referral systems that turn contacts into paying clients

Closing Referral Request — Make it specific and memorable
  • Who do you know whose
  • networking efforts aren't matching their business success?

Ready to create a referral script for another member?

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About Alvin cooney

Alvin Cooney is the owner of Asentiv Australia, specializing in business development through structured networking and referral systems. Based in Perth, he helps business owners transform their networking efforts into measurable revenue growth through proven referral methodologies.

Perth business networking training for small business owners seeking qualified referrals

Disclaimer: This content was generated to provide possible examples for BNI Members and the scenarios provided are not real. Members can use ideas from this to structure their own presentation.

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